We confess that we choose to love ourselves first and only.
We pray that everything we do as a community will be to better love our God, love our Neighbor and love our Brother. (Luke 10:27, Galatians 5:13)
I am pretty good at loving myself. There are times I have a hard time feeling compassion towards others, but I can always feel sorry for myself. I have a hard time giving away hard-earned money to those who need it, but it is very easy for me to drop $20, $30, $40 a month at Starbucks. I don’t think this is a new or difficult concept to grasp. Self-love is everywhere. From the image-conscious model to the homeless man who leaves dirt on his face to improve his chances of getting help, we all know how to love ourselves. What is difficult is loving others with the same – or even more – love that we have for ourselves.
But this is what we are called to do. When summing up the Law, Jesus says in Luke 10:27 that the greatest, most important thing we can do is love our God with everything we have. If we are following our Christ well, everything we do should create a deeper love for God inside of us.
Not only are we called to love our God, but our neighbor too. Jesus sums up what he meant by neighbor by telling the parable of the good samaritan. Long story short, neighbor is everyone outside of the following of Christ. From the friendly man down the street who believes that all religions lead to the same eternity to the crack addict living across town who can’t get a job because of his past, we are to love this group with reckless abandon. We are to love the un-redeemed sinner more than they love their own sin. This is not an easy or simple or even logical calling, but it is ours.
Lastly we are to love our brother. Simply put, this is anyone inside the following of Christ. Depending on our different personalities, we tend to either love our neighbor or our brother, not both. If loving our neighbor means serving the worst that society has to offer, loving our brother means loving those who think they are the best the church has to offer. In the parable of the prodigal son, the Father runs out to meet both sons, the prodigal (neighbor) and the older son (brother).
The end goal of loving the neighbor and the brother is to bring them into the body of Christ. How beautiful a plan is it that by following the command to love our God we are more willing and motivated to love our neighbor and our brother.
Let’s pray this week that everything we do as a community will be to better love our God, love our Neighbor and love our Brother.